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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by My Kids?

by Margaret Paul, Jordan Paul
$13.90
Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by My Kids?
Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by My Kids?

Parenting without giving up yourself

Margaret Paul and Jordan Paul present an in-depth guide integrating modern psychology with age-old wisdom. A thoughtful choice for parents drawn to its central question.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by My Kids?

by Margaret Paul, Jordan Paul
$13.90
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ISBN: 9780896383074
Authors: Margaret Paul, Jordan Paul
Publisher: Compcare Pubns
Date of Publication: 1993-01-01
Format: Paperback
Related Collections: Personal Development, Sociology
Related Topics: Personal Development, How To, Parenting, Psychology, Mental Health
Goodreads rating: 4.5
(rated by 4 readers)

Description

The authors of Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by My Kids? now present "a brilliant, deeply honest, in-depth guide . . . (that) integrates the best of modern psychology with age-old wisdom" (Harold Bloomfield, author of Making Peace with Your Parents).
 

Parenting without giving up yourself

Margaret Paul and Jordan Paul present an in-depth guide integrating modern psychology with age-old wisdom. A thoughtful choice for parents drawn to its central question.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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