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The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

Esther Perel

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The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

by Esther Perel
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The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

Provocative exploration of infidelity in modern marriage.

If you're intrigued by the complexities of love and relationships, Esther Perel's "The State of Affairs" is an unflinchingly honest dive into the world of infidelity. Perel's expertise as a couples' therapist enriches her insights, making this read a powerful tool for anyone looking to understand the deeper motivations behind our desires and betrayals. It's a conversation starter that challenges conventional wisdom on commitment and love.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

by Esther Perel
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ISBN: 9781473673557
Author: Esther Perel
Publisher: Yellow Kite
Date of Publication: 2019-09-05
Related Collections: Sociology, Personal Development
Related Topics: Psychology, Marriage, Personal Development
Goodreads rating: 4.36
(rated by 21422 readers)

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Iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a provocative look at relationships through the lens of infidelity. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about the human heart—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations.
 

Provocative exploration of infidelity in modern marriage.

If you're intrigued by the complexities of love and relationships, Esther Perel's "The State of Affairs" is an unflinchingly honest dive into the world of infidelity. Perel's expertise as a couples' therapist enriches her insights, making this read a powerful tool for anyone looking to understand the deeper motivations behind our desires and betrayals. It's a conversation starter that challenges conventional wisdom on commitment and love.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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