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Difficult Mothers: Understanding and Overcoming Their Power

by Terri Apter
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Difficult Mothers: Understanding and Overcoming Their Power
Difficult Mothers: Understanding and Overcoming Their Power

Untangle the bond that still holds

Terri Apter draws on attachment and brain-development research to examine difficult mother-child relationships. She identifies five patterns: angry, controlling, narcissistic, envious, and emotionally neglectful. With compassionate guidance and an emotional audit, the book explores complex feelings and the resilience of sons and daughters.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.
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ISBN: 9780393345445
Authors: Terri Apter
Publisher: WW Norton & Co
Date of Publication: 2013-05-13
Format: Paperback
Related Collections: Personal Development, Science, Sociology
Related Topics: Neuroscience, Personal Development, Parenting, Psychology, Mental Health

Description

An essential work for readers seeking compassionate, wise guidance about the powerful relationship between mothers and their sons and daughters. Mother love is often seen as sacred, but for many children the relationship is a painful struggle. Using the newest research on human attachment and brain development, Terri Apter, an internationally acclaimed psychologist and writer, unlocks the mysteries of this complicated bond. She showcases the five different types of difficult mother―the angry mother, the controlling mother, the narcissistic mother, the envious mother, and the emotionally neglectful mother―and explains the patterns of behavior seen in each type. Apter also explores the dilemma at the heart of a difficult relationship: why a mother has such a powerful impact on us and why we continue to care about her responses long after we have outgrown our dependence. She then shows how we can conduct an “emotional audit” on ourselves to overcome the power of the complex feelings a difficult mother inflicts. In the end this book celebrates the great resilience of sons and daughters of difficult mothers as well as acknowledging their special challenges.
 

Untangle the bond that still holds

Terri Apter draws on attachment and brain-development research to examine difficult mother-child relationships. She identifies five patterns: angry, controlling, narcissistic, envious, and emotionally neglectful. With compassionate guidance and an emotional audit, the book explores complex feelings and the resilience of sons and daughters.

Note: While we do our best to ensure the accuracy of cover images, ISBNs may at times be reused for different editions of the same title which may hence appear as a different cover.

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